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If you and your ex have recently broken up and you want to get your ex back, can you honestly say that you don’t know what caused the breakup? If not, you need to find out before you have a realistic chance of winning him or her back. A big part of the equation is how long you and your ex were together. Was this a long-term relationship, or just something that was just a few weeks old?Some of the things you may want to look at are whether the issue(s) that caused the breakup are important enough to justify the amount of attention that they are getting. Also, if you were to approach your ex about the matter would it be considered the right time, or would they “slam the door in your face”, so to speak?If the answer to either or both of these questions is “No” you should probably stop and give the situation some time to rest before you work on mending the relationship. For women, many times they feel that it is a physical appearance thing that they are lacking which caused a breakup. That is rarely the real reason. And even if your ex tells you that that is the reason (which is highly doubtful) you should probably just dismiss it.The most important thing to do at this stage is to give the situation some time because if you pursue reconciliation this early on in the breakup, it will just drive your ex further way.